Tag: not asking for it

  • Still Not Asking for It (Trigger Warning: rape)

    Still Not Asking for It (Trigger Warning: rape)

    I believe in ripping off the band-aid, so let’s get to the point. Someone very close to me was brutally raped. That was very, very bad but we’re getting past it and it’s becoming a bad thing that happened in the past, not a defining attribute of one’s own self. What I was not prepared for, in confiding to some friends what had happened, was the reaction I got from a few people. Someone I’ve known for years actually wanted to know if the person had been drinking (no)  or how they were dressed (t-shirt and jeans). Seriously? It made me angry that  people are still so uncomfortable with the notion that a man just took what he wanted in a violent, brutal way that surely the woman must have done something that gave him the green light to behave that way.
    I really don’t think it matters if a woman is drunk and nekkid as the day she was born, if she isn’t into sex with you, then don’t push it, and don’t rape.
    I’ve done a few pieces, this is the third in what is turning into a series.

    About the Artwork

    This is acrylic painted directly on a vintage photo and sealed under varnish.
    Each woman is wearing a pageant sash that spells out “Not Asking For It.”
    The size is 5.5 x 6.5 inches. The photo is from around 1910 – 1920s.
    Price : $35 + $3 shipping

    This artwork is sold

    Buy this Artwork securely through Paypal!

    Shipping

    Shipping within the United States is usually $3.
    International shipping to most destinations runs around $9. If you reside outside the U.S. just contact me before buying so I can give you an exact quote for shipping.


  • Still Not Asking For It Original Improved Photo Painting

    still-not-asking-for-it-closeup still-not-asking-for-itA really depressing statistic shows 1 in 5 women will experience rape in her lifetime. That’s unacceptable. Not matter what I am wearing (not wearing), I am still not asking for it.

    This piece is acrylics, gouache, ink, and watercolors painted directly on a vintage photo. I like to call them “improved photos.” This vintage photo is from around 1920 and is mounted in a few layers of chipboard and heavy card stock. It came to me like this so I am unsure of when the mounting of the photo took place.

    This piece is available for purchase here.